"Misery loves company" -- even with a chicken and turkey.
Someone always has it worse.
Too funny! ;-)
Thank you to my son-in-law for sharing these.
November 22, 2018
What Did The Turkey Say To The Chicken?
Someone always has it worse.
Too funny! ;-)
Thank you to my son-in-law for sharing these.
Black Thursday For Shopaholics
So Black Friday Shopping extravaganza that used to happen the day after Thanksgiving has now turned into Black Thursday mega-shopping on Thanksgiving Thursday.
The huge Sawgrass Mills Mall in Sunrise, Florida is open 10 AM to 1 AM!
The mall was packed with people and the deals were pretty fantastic.
Under Armour was 50% off!
True Religion was buy 1 get 1 free!
Almost every store seemed to be 1/2 price off already reduced prices.
What I liked in this video I took here was the WOW! display around the entire entrance to this Century 21 apparel store.
Watch the whole thing...it is really cool what they did with this frontage real estate for this store.
Great job on the marketing and very inviting!
So lots of compulsive shopping, but not so much turkey today. ;-)
(Source video: Andy Blumenthal)
November 21, 2018
My Aching Back
Had the worst sciatica pain down my hip and leg--could hardly walk or sleep from it.
I went to the Orthopedist and he game me some meds for the inflammation and sent me for an MRI.
Also, I went a number of times for acupressure, which was truly awesome.
Came back to the Orthopedist and he asks how I am.
I said:
Feeling a lot better, but the MRI shows a herniated disc.
He says:
Go home and have a Happy Thanksgiving--we only do surgery to treat symptoms!
So I am truly happy that alls well that ends well.
Thank you Hashem! ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 20, 2018
How Does It feel At The Top
He said:
The 360 degree view is good, but it get's windy at times!
I thought this was pretty smart, and one reason that many people opt out of moving into senior and executive positions in their organizations.
Yes, it's great to be able to lead and have more visibility, influence, and impact.
But at the same time, this does not come for free or without risks.
At the top of the pyramid or corporate offices or whatever, there is opportunity.
Yet, your dealing with other top honchos with strong personalities, egos, and often harsh ways of dealing with others and conflict can be perilous for many.
My father used to tell me his philosophy:
Better a little less, but you know what you have.
There is definitely wisdom in those words.
Maybe as with most things in life, there is a time and place for everything.
It is great to have the opportunity to lead.
It's also not bad to have a time to follow and contribute in that way.
What's important is that whatever role your in at the time, that you do it with integrity and passion to do good.
So how does it feel at the top--sure, it's a nice view, but it can get very windy too. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 19, 2018
Happy Friendsgiving
Of course, you know about Thanksgiving--when we celebrate with our family all the wonderful things in life that G-d has blessed us with.
Well now there is "Friendsgiving."
This typically occurs on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving, and is enjoyed with friends (instead of family).
We are still grateful, but we just are thankful with a different set of significant others in our lives.
To me there is nothing like my family--as my father taught me:
Blood is thicker than water.
But friends are important in our lives as well, and good and true friends are so hard to come by--so we should celebrate them and with them whenever possible too.
Finally, I choose this flower, "Bird of Paradise" for this blog, because I love it and it is something wonderful from G-d that I am grateful for.
Happy Thanksgiving and Friendsgiving to All! ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 18, 2018
November 17, 2018
Striving To Be Good Enough (This Time Around)
I too believe strongly in reincarnation. I think that is partially what G-d means by doing justice in this world. If you bomb out in life and don't fulfill your true potential than G-d sends you back for another try. And this can happen as many times as it takes to get it right!
I hope I am getting it right in my life this time around. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 16, 2018
Advertising Platforms As A REAL Business Model?
These companies and their percentage of advertising revenue are:
Facebook - 98.3%
Twitter -- 86.4%
Alphabet (Google) -- 86%
It's a wonderful thing how advertising pays for the wonderful free Internet services.
Looking back to when I was a kid, I guess that how we got all those marvelous TV shows without having to pay for a cable subscription.
But what I always wonder in the back of my mind is whether collecting advertising dollars is a REAL business.
Yeah, sure these companies are mammoth and have made themselves and their shareholders gazillions of dollars.
But somewhere I keep telling myself this doesn't quite add up.
If you make something of value then someone is willing to pay for it.
If it doesn't have value then you have to give it away for free.
If facebook or twitter actually charged money for their service, I can't imagine anyone would actually pay squat for it.
Google is another story, but if they started to charge, you'd just go to a service like Explorer or Safari that doesn't.
So if the only way to provide the service is to shove advertising down your customer's throats, again I have to ask is that really a business.
If I can't see how a company can sell something based on the VALUE they are providing, honestly it's not something that I can really get myself behind.
Out of the three companies--Google is perhaps the only one that I can see as a real something.
As for Facebook and Twitter, despite the Presidential tweets and Russian interference in our elections, I don't see the underlying greatness.
Maybe I am way wrong, but if you don't want to pay for it then what the heck is it really worth! ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 15, 2018
Listen, Empathize, Give A Little
He said something I liked:
Listen, empathize, and give a little.
Yes, we each have our beliefs and positions on things.
But we don't live in a vacuum.
Other people have their own views, sensitivities, and wants.
We have to get along so we can work together, and get things done.
It starts by listening--not just hearing, but really listening to what the other person is saying.
But that's not really enough.
To really understand the other person, we have to try to empathize with what they are feeling--we need to try to walk in their shoes even if just for a moment.
But that also isn't enough.
We can't have it all our way--we need to give a little to get a little.
No one can have everything and have a good relationship like that.
We need to compromise--as long as it's not on things of integrity, conviction, or G-d.
Everything else we have to listen, empathize, and give a little. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 14, 2018
Winding Path Of Life
Perhaps, we seek a straight line--with no bumps or bruises--to go from where we are to where we want to be.
But life has others plans for us.
The road ahead is often winding and where we truly end up is often unknown.
Certainly, staying frozen in place and doing nothing with our lives is not an option.
So we move forward, one step at a time, and occasionally taking a leap forward.
Also, sometimes, we have to take a few steps backward before we can advance again.
Other times, we may even stumble and fall.
Whatever happens, we continue to work our way towards the landing at the top to see what we shall see. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 13, 2018
Beautiful Song On Being A Jew
November 12, 2018
Beautiful, Peaceful Picture For Veterans Day
November 11, 2018
Stretch Goals That Break The Band
You want to have stretch goals because they make your strive to do and be your best.
When you have to stretch yourself above your normal then you can take yourself to whole new levels of performance and achievement.
However, if the stretch goals are ridiculously unachievable than you simply set yourself up for frustration and failure.
Goals need to be SMART: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Time-bound.
But too often they are DUMB goals: Directed by others, Unachievable, Made to fail, and Based on false assumptions.
For example, if someone tells you to jump off that bridge into the whitewater beneath because they assume that somehow you can spread you bare arms and fly--guess what is going to happen to you?
Goals can help you get to new heights of accomplishment in life or they can pull you down in false condemnation and despair.
Like in fighting the good fight...be careful when you are sent to the front lines in trench warfare with heavily dug fortifications, machine guns and artillery placements aimed your way and yelled at with no rational strategy to "Advance!"
The only place that is going to take you is to an early grave.
Instead, fight smart and take the hill when the hill is takable--you save a lot more lives that way and you actually take that hill! ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 10, 2018
Democrats and Democracy
The polarization, opposition, racism, and hatred is despicable and seems to only be getting worse. Two more people came to me today after synagogue to tell me they are “resigning” from the democratic party. We all used to love the Democratic Party and what it stood for, especially as Jews, who know the endless and murderous barbs of discrimination and anti-Semitism. What has happened? What once stood for freedom, respect, and dignity for all has turned upside down and inside out. All I hear now is hate, hate, and more hate.
Whichever political party and leadership can do what's right for the nation and adhere to civil rights, human rights, and doing what's right--that's the one for me. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 9, 2018
A Half Truth
They don't want people to really know the truth, but they don't want to call it a real lie.
Hence the saying:
"It's just a white lie!"
A white lie is usually taken as in "pure" or "righteous"--in other words, there is a good reason (like to prevent someone from getting hurt) for lying, .
Yes, sure there is (LOL).
Sometimes people lie to themselves:
"What you don't know can't harm you!"
Most often, people tell what they call half truths.
This is commonly referred to as:
"Beating around the bush!"
However, don't tell anyone:
A half truth is a lie!
And just like beating around the bush arouses the birds to fly and get caught in a net--that's what telling half truths do too.
Why is it so hard to tell the whole truth, because that would make most people look pretty bad.
If people only knew.
But someday, of course, they will. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 8, 2018
Think Back, Think Forward
There were about 20 people in the graduating class.
One thing that I liked was that when they called up each person to shake hands and get their diplomas, each graduate was given the opportunity to say a few words.
It was amazing to me how 20 people could give a thank you, what I learned, and what I will do with it speech in 20 completely different ways.
20 people, 20 personalities, 20 ways of thinking and saying something.
We really are all the similar to and different from one anther at the same time!
I remember one graduate in particular.
He talked about how the leadership program challenged him, and he said:
It made me think back, and it made me think forward.
I loved that!
This is really what learning is all about.
Reflecting back and using that to think forward--how to apply it, how to shape it, and how to innovate from it.
Thinking forward starts with thinking back to where we came from and all the lessons learned in our lives.
It all starts at the beginning and it goes forward from there. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 7, 2018
Bills, Health, and Purpose
He was telling me about some of life's stresses at work, home, etc., and he said even though every looks forward to retirement "one day," the problems don't go away.
He mentioned some examples of people he knows that retired relatively young and with a pension.
Nevertheless, he said:
They still worry about bills, about health, and mostly about purpose!
And even though they don't have the day-to-day grind in the office, he said:
Their own stress is as real to them as mine is to me.
I couldn't help reflecting on his words and thinking how smart this was.
No one has it all!
Everyone is this world has fears, worries, and problems.
And you know what? It's okay.
Life is about us confronting what seems unconfrontable and becoming better human beings because we did. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 6, 2018
Training Them To Be Like Us
This kid was pushing the shopping cart with groceries in it.
And a little sign at the top that says:
Customer in Training
His mom is nearby with the big shopping cart full of even more groceries.
It's interesting how we teach our kids to be just like us and at the same time to be not like us.
They emulate some things and they reject others.
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
But no two apples are the same either.
Teaching is an important component of parenting and schooling.
We need to impart important lessons from the past, so children don't have to recreate the wheel in the present and future.
But spitting out little clones is not helpful to innovation and the engine of "what's next."
Sometimes, I envision that there is a really big war--maybe World War III--nukes are used and all our bits and bytes are wiped out, and we are thrown back to the Stone Age.
All the teaching is evaporated in the vapor of the blasts.
All that's left in what's in the soul of the remaining. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 5, 2018
Election Day Dead of 2018
With the country torn asunder between left and right.
We are the grateful dead of the U.S. of A.
- Our political system is stymied and our representatives are only self-minded.
The integrity of our founding fathers has vanished and last century's great national hope has languished.
Cause the liberals hate the conservatives.
And the conservatives hate the liberals.
All of my folks hate all of your folks, and everyone blames the Jews.
- The Constitution has become malarkey, and the Bill of Rights now makes people snarky.
Polarization and they're a lyin', fake news and no one is even tryin'.
It's either my way or the highway, and everyone else can go to h*ll.
- Throw a fit and curse your neighbor, chase the opposition to the wayward.
Know that threats and violence are better than silence, and resistance means persistence.
How could this have even happened, and you're all on the wrong side of history.
- Are we making things great, and they're only about hate.
Or are they racist deplorables, and we're the self-righteous ennobles.
From the economy to trade wars, and from immigration to healthcare.
Why is it that we can't listen, negotiate, compromise, and play fair.
- I don't know why we're even having an election.
When we only want to defeat the opposition.
Cause the Democrats hate the Republicans.
And the Republicans hate the Democrats.
All of the Obamanicks hate the Trumpeans, and vice versa is certainly true too.
- It's up to everyone to put the country first and stop the bickering and the hate.
Practice patriotism and nationalism, tear down the walls so progress does not stall.
No one is all right and no one is all wrong, instead we've got to come together and just let everyone belong.
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 4, 2018
Problems Are Earthly
"G-d is greater than you problem"
- Problems may seem like the end.
But G-d is the root of all BEGINNINGS!
- Problems may be overwhelming.
But G-d is your HEAVENLY FATHER AND MOTHER!
- Problems may be big.
But G-d is INFINITE!
- Problems may be tough.
But G-d is ALL POWERFUL!
- Problems may be challenging.
But G-d has all the ANSWERS!
- Don't let your problems get you down.
See the bigger picture.
Know you are not alone in the universe.
Have faith that everything is in G-d's hands and will be alright. ;-)
(Source Graphic: Andy Blumenthal)
November 3, 2018
Appreciate The Good
After synagogue services today, we sat at the Kiddish with a lovely couple, and the lady took the opportunity to go around the table and ask each person: “What good thing happened to you this week?” I really appreciated the idea of focusing on the good and the miracles we live through every day rather than the bad things. It was interesting though that people seemed to have trouble saying something really positive from their week. In truth, they seemed more enveloped in the problems of the times rather than the opportunities that each day brings.But truly, there are so many good things that we can appreciate each and every day, and that inspires faith and hope for many more good things to come. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 2, 2018
At The Border: Immigration Or War
In real life, we have a caravan of thousands of people marching from Central America (Honduras and Guatemala) to the U.S. border seeking asylum, mostly for economic reasons.
On TV, we have the Last Ship Season 5, where South and Central America are at war with the U.S., "no longer willing to sit at the children's table of international politics," and they are coming to the U.S. to fight.
In the U.S. today, there are over 40 million people that were born in another country. Of these, there are over 12 million immigrants living illegally in the U.S. (55% from Mexico), and we know that we need immigration reform.
In the truest sense, we are almost all of us immigrants to this country, with ourselves or our families coming over at one time or another, and we are grateful for the generosity and open doors that allowed us to come here and make a good life.
Of course, we want to pay it forward and give others the same asylum and opportunity that we had and which they as human beings deserve.
Yet, the country continues to debate the mix of compassion and giving to the oppressed and needy versus the merit principles for bringing in needed skills, talents, and investment, and how many is the "right" number to allow in at any one time.
In real life, we are beefing up border agents, building a wall, and calling in the military to halt the illegal flow of immigrants, so that we can channel immigrates through a process and vetting that leads to legal and safe immigration to this country
On TV, we are fighting in the air, on land, and at sea an alliance of countries from the south and central that want to take over the U.S., and we are also holding our own and holding them back.
In both cases, we need to have and maintain borders to be a sovereign country, to protect our country, and to ensure that caravans of illegal immigrants or foreign troops are not crossing the border and doing harm.
It's high time for true immigration reform that is compassionate yet principled, but overrunning the border isn't an option that is practical or fair. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
November 1, 2018
Some Reflections From The Procedure
I hate going to the hospital--who doesn't?
But I figured better to take care of something before it gets worse.
I think of it like taking the car into the mechanic for a tuneup every once in a while.
This analogy stuck with me years ago, when the orthopedist told me I needed to get a hip replacement and started to describe it as having a flat tire that needed to be repaired.
Leading up the the procedure, someone sent me this funny cartoon:
Ah, have some liquor, bite on this piece of wood, and now we'll saw your leg off!
I remember my father never even liked to go to the doctor, and he had total faith that G-d was his doctor--I think he actually managed to avoid the doctor for literally something like 30-years.
He also used to joke that many doctors were butchers, and he didn't want to get caught under their knife.
So that's certainly some apprehension going in to this.
The other thing that was interesting-sad that I saw this week when I went for an MRI was someone taking a homeless person into the radiology center for a scan.
But when the lady asked for insurance the person didn't have any, so the lady asks for "proof of homelessness."
I was flabbergasted at this as the guy was obviously homeless and literally was wearing tattered clothes.
They wouldn't do the scan until the person escorting him would come back with this proof.
I felt so bad for him and thought to myself is this what the healthcare system and care for the poverty-striken in this country has come to?
While I am so truly grateful for the miraculous care that I received this week, I am equally saddened at the care that others don't get that need it, and pray that we as a "caring society" will do better.
Anyway, I want to express my gratitude to the doctor, the hospital, my wonderful family who stood by me, and most of all to G-d for seeing me through the procedure this week and for watching over me always. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
October 30, 2018
Beautiful Flowers
The colors and shapes are so amazing.
It's like you can see G-d's amazing hand in creating these so intricately, delicately and with so much brilliance.
There is comfort in His work and the life He has given.
I am grateful for each day to serve His purpose.
Hope you enjoy the gorgeous flowers. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
October 29, 2018
Talking The Bullet
But one of the lessons that sticks out it that sometimes you have to take a bullet for the President!
This lesson stayed with me and I believe it applies to a lot of other situations in life as well.
Sometimes you take one for the
- Team
- Cause
- Relationship
It's easy to say you are going to preserve you self by "dodging a bullet," but often it's really just the opposite that is needed.
If you take the bullet, you are putting yourself subordinate to a larger cause and what is really important.
Taking one to safeguard the President of the United States is definitely a larger cause.
But also your team, the success of an important cause or project, precious relationships that have been built over time--these can all mean more than taking even a significant hit.
This doesn't mean to be stupid, become anyone's punching bag or just take people's sh*t for nothing.
Rather what it does mean is that you can suck it up sometimes--when the ends justify the means--and jump in front of that bullet to preserve something bigger and more important than just yourself.
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
October 28, 2018
Shooting At You
"When someone is shooting at you, you know their intentions."
Sounds simple right?
But often the person throwing shots your way may be couching their real intentions and telling you:
"Ah, it's nothing."
Some may try and rip you off, and tell you:
"It's just business!"
Others punching you like a punching bag tell you:
"You need to get a thicker skin!"
People f*cking with your head ask you:
"Aren't you being a little paranoid?"
Yet others blame the victim calling you out for any sign of weakness"
"Why are you so pathetic? Crybaby!"
The truth of the matter is when people shoot you, take potshots at you, or otherwise physically, verbally, and emotionally abuse you, there is usually some evil sleight of hand and tongue at play.
People that are good people--don't abuse you!
There is no guise or beguiling when people are being truthful and when they truly care about other people.
When they shoot at you, yes you know their intentions.
Stop pretending they didn't mean it. Stop accepting empty promises that they won't do it again. Stop listening to hollow refrains of sorry.
People can be selfish and evil beasts that rip others apart because they will benefit from it or simply because they can or want to.
- Pain and suffering of other human beings is what they relish and feed on like blood is to a vampire.
Good people--do good to others.
- They want to give to others and see others flourish--they know G-d and understand the real purpose of life.
When they shoot you, you know their intentions.
Sure you can shoot back and sometimes you have no choice, but the best way to win is to be that good person. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
October 27, 2018
Shooting at The Tree of Life
No, this is certainly not the Tree of Life in the Garden of Eden--this murderous scene was certainly no Eden! On this Shabbat there is not life in that holy house of worship, but another familiar Jewish massacre from a gunman screaming, "All the Jews need to die!"Let us be strong together and hope for the full redemption when peace and brotherhood will soon prevail. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
October 26, 2018
A Window and A Mirror
And how money can corrupt our vision of what is truly important.
This is the story:
A rich man became ill.
He looked out the window and saw his old friend who was a poor man.
The rich, sick man invited the poor man, his friend into his house.
After talking awhile, the rich man asked the poor man to tell him what he sees.
The poor man told the rich man to go over to the window and asked:
What do you see?
The rich man said:
I see men, women and children in the street.
Then the poor man took the rich man over the mirror and asked him:
Now what do you see?
The rich man taken aback for a moment, said:
I see myself.
The poor man says:
Ah, that is the difference. Both the window and the mirror are both made out of glass. But when you look into them, you see different things. The window is just plain glass. But the mirror is glass covered in silver. When we look through just the glass, we see others! But when we look through the glass tainted with a coating of silver (i.e. money), we only see ourselves.
Wow! Think about it a moment. Shabbat Shalom! ;-)
(Story adapted from Bishvil Ha-Ivrit)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
October 25, 2018
It's Not Really Yours
Didn't someone say, "Money is the root of all evil."
Of course, it's not money itself that is bad, but the greed for it, and the use and hoarding of it for selfish purposes.
On this topic, my daughter sent me this interesting story:
One business tycoon in China passed away.We can have all the money in the world, but it's never really ours.
His widow, was left with $1.9 billion in the bank, and married his chauffeur.
His chauffeur said: "All the while, I thought I was working for my boss... it is only now, that I realize that my boss was all the time, working for me!"
It all belongs to G-d, as does our entire life.
He decides what we have or don't have (any longer).
We need to realize that life is ephemeral and all material things are given to us just for the time being.
We should be generous with whatever bounty that G-d has given to us, because in the end that is all that is truly lasting.
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
October 24, 2018
Herd Mentality
First there are big mouths and groupthink.
Then there is chasing each others tails.
This could lead to literally going off a cliff.
Typically, like wolves, they hunt viciously in packs.
When they are stalked, they run scared leaving the weakest to serve as prey.
When hunted, they are separated and slaughtered.
Herds serve a survival function in nature, but when the herd is dumb, as if often the case, they die off and are left extinct. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
October 22, 2018
The Value of Pain
October 21, 2018
Awesome "Am Echad" by Ari Goldwag
And you are not with me
What am I when I am separate?
For I am a Jew
I do not go alone
Just with you, my friend, hand in hand
One nation, one song
Come my brother and give me your hand
And we will rejoice and dance together
As one person, with one heart
I don't want want to be alone,
Just forever brothers sitting together
To be a family
Is the secret of joy
For everything is better together
And we sing
All Israel are friends
We won't give up on anyone
If we can successfully love
And sing 'how pleasant..'
The Moshiach will come soon
Wine Makes Me Smile
Just a big simple smiley face on it!
After I saw this bottle in the store, I just had to take a picture and also look this up on the internet.
It's part of the "SMILE" wine campaign from Lindeman's Wines.
Apparently each limited edition bottle reminds you of something that we have to smile about: "family get-togethers," "discovering new places," and "randoms acts of kindness."
Wow, I love this idea.
Wine makes you smile, but so do these wonderful things in life.
And it's not just showing/associating the product with something positive (like beer and soda commercials always do), but it's making the product itself smile at you!
I think this is a really smart marketing campaign.
Also, the cute smiley face on the bottle would make this the life of the party.
Great job Lindemans--I'm smiling. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
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