July 1, 2020
When All The World Is Going Crazy
The best thing you can do is stay CALM.
- Calm is where good energy enters and bad doesn't.
- Calm is where rational thinking gets done.
- Calm is where positive action happens.
- Calm is where our inner faith is sustained.
- Calm is where we can inspire and lead ourselves and others to do good.
Calm is where we all yearn to be. ;-)
(Credit Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
February 6, 2020
Build Others Up
It says:
"Don't Cut Down Others"
It's far better to build people up then to tear them down.
Jut like with trees, it's better to plant a trillion trees than deforest the Amazon Rainforest.
Trees are life and people are life.
Be constructive and not destructive.
Offer a nice word or compliment; provide an attentive and empathetic ear; give direction with some advice or guidance; lend a hand to someone in need; and in general, be a good influence.
Unfortunately, too many people default to cutting down the old cherry tree! ;-)
(Credit Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
Build Others Up
April 13, 2018
Why Worry?
Worrying is suffering twice!
I thought this was pretty smart.
With worry, we suffer when we worry and then we suffer again if the thing we are worrying about actually comes to fruition.
So in essence, we are doubling up on the suffering.
Yet, worry can be constructive if we use it to spur us to positive action such as in confronting and dealing with challenging situations.
But when we worry just for the sake of worry because we can't control our anxiety and moreover, it actually may paralyze us with fear, then this is obviously a bad thing.
Do I worry?
Sure do, but like my dad, I use worry to try and think out-of-the-box, to plan, to problem-solve, to figure out coping mechanisms etc.
Worry is suffering for sure.
However, if we can channel the worry to positive impact, then the worry can be worth the pain it inflicts on us. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
Why Worry?
September 1, 2015
Guillotine, Other Options Plz
"Stop Bitching. Start A Revolution."
So I'm thinking this is not the type of message you like to see in the capital of the country.
But looking beyond the call by whomever for a forcible overthrow of the government (yeah, hopefully they don't mean it)...
Perhaps what they do mean for people to do something more than just complain about the things they see that are wrong or broken, and instead to do something positive.
Not a real revolution, but an evolution of change--incremental change, even baby steps, but leading to positive and constructive betterment!
Stop just huffing and puffing about this and that.
Consider speaking up, coming up with new and better ideas, advocating for something more, and actually helping to build it.
The guillotine is normally not the solution (French Revolution aside)--but that doesn't mean you can't do squat. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
Guillotine, Other Options Plz
April 8, 2012
Poisons Anonymous
But that by turning these poisons around into generosity, compassion, and wisdom, we can create life-healing.
While this is sort of simplistic, it does point to a number of important things:
1) We can have an impact on our destiny. We can choose our direction and work towards something that is good or we can fall harmfully into some bad and destructive ways.
2) Everything has an antidote. While we may not know the antidote at the time, generally everything has its corollary or opposite and we can find healing by moving towards that.
3) The answers in life are not so far away. How much of a stretch is it to turned a clenched fist into an open hand or to quench ignorance with learning--these things are doable.
If we look at people and events at face value, it is easy as times to get angry and feel hatred at the corruption and injustices out there--but I believe, the key is to channel those feeling into something positive--into change and Tikkun Olam--"fixing the world".
By channeling our feelings into constructive actions, then we are changing not just ourselves, but can have a broader influence--one deed at a time.
(Source Graphic: Andy Blumenthal)
Poisons Anonymous
December 12, 2011
Words Matter A Lot
This is a great video on the power of words, but also on the caring of one for another.
We can make a difference with our words!
Words can help and can hurt, they can pursuade and they can punish, but the most important thing is that we are responsible for how we use them.
While we can say we're sorry for hurtful words, they can never really be taken back (i.e. unspoken).
And just the opposite holds true as well--when we use words constructively, the impact for good reverberates.
I still hear the words of the most important people in my life guiding me, always.
Use your words with care, deference, ingenuity, and most important with kindness for others.
Words Matter A Lot
March 21, 2011
Surround Yourself With Positive People
Surround Yourself With Positive People
January 2, 2009
It Time to Stop the Negativity and Move towards Constructive Change
It Time to Stop the Negativity and Move towards Constructive Change