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Showing posts with label Cancer. Show all posts
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September 22, 2020
Much To Be Afraid Of
Life size scary-looking Jack In The Box at Home Depot.
When this clown dude pops out, you'll sh*t your pants.
And who really wants to be more scared in this world anyway?
With Covid, Cancer, Corruption, Cyber Attacks, Identity Theft, Radicalism, Terrorism, War, Weapons of Mass Destruction, Loss and Death, Environmental issues, and the Economy don't we have enough to be afraid of already? ;-)
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When this clown dude pops out, you'll sh*t your pants.
And who really wants to be more scared in this world anyway?
With Covid, Cancer, Corruption, Cyber Attacks, Identity Theft, Radicalism, Terrorism, War, Weapons of Mass Destruction, Loss and Death, Environmental issues, and the Economy don't we have enough to be afraid of already? ;-)
(Credit Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
Much To Be Afraid Of
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February 5, 2020
Scary Model of Cancer
Saw this at a doctors office in one of the patient rooms.
At first I wasn't even sure what it was.
Looks like a stomach.
What are those globs?
Oy, they represent malignant tumors (from what I understood reading the fine print).
Really makes it hit home when you see it in front of you on display like that.
So much suffering from illnesses like cancer.
G-d should have mercy.
We really need to find "the cure!"
Imagine what a day that will be. ;-)
At first I wasn't even sure what it was.
Looks like a stomach.
What are those globs?
Oy, they represent malignant tumors (from what I understood reading the fine print).
Really makes it hit home when you see it in front of you on display like that.
So much suffering from illnesses like cancer.
G-d should have mercy.
We really need to find "the cure!"
Imagine what a day that will be. ;-)
Scary Model of Cancer
June 26, 2019
Amazing - They Go In And See
Had my routine colonoscopy this morning.
It is so amazing that they can go in with camera and everything.
Look around and if necessary, cut out anything bad.
Years ago, people just felt sick or pain and maybe saw some symptoms from outside.
But they had no idea what was happening inside.
So grateful to G-d for the technology and doctors that can make sure all is okay.
We are truly living in miraculous times.
They even send you home with some pictures afterward.
It's interesting to see, but maybe a little TMI. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
It is so amazing that they can go in with camera and everything.
Look around and if necessary, cut out anything bad.
Years ago, people just felt sick or pain and maybe saw some symptoms from outside.
But they had no idea what was happening inside.
So grateful to G-d for the technology and doctors that can make sure all is okay.
We are truly living in miraculous times.
They even send you home with some pictures afterward.
It's interesting to see, but maybe a little TMI. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
Amazing - They Go In And See
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October 16, 2018
Paul Allen And Steve Jobs - Both Left Us Early!
Paul Allen, co-founder of Microsoft died yesterday, Oct. 15, 2018.
His untimely death reminded me of Steve Jobs, co-founder of Microsoft who died Oct. 5, 2011.
Allen co-founder Microsoft in 1975 and Jobs co-founded Apple in 1976.
Allen was 65 and Jobs was just 56 at time of death.
Both were pioneers in the IT Revolution.
Both died of cancer.
Both dropped out of college.
Both accumulated $20B of wealth in today's money.
Both own(ed) 2 sports teams (Jobs posthumously)
Both were huge philanthropists in terms of what they left the world: money in Allen's case and many innovations in Job's.
Both have been in Time's 100 Most Influential People.
Both died an early death--sadly too young!
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Paul Allen And Steve Jobs - Both Left Us Early!
January 5, 2018
My Contribution To Love
So I saw a casual work friend the other day doting around what looked like his girlfriend.
They looked really cute together.
And this guy is in his 60's and lost his wife a number of years ago to cancer, so I was really happy to see him happy, and playful in love again.
After a while, I took the opportunity to play cupid best I could.
I told her how nice this guy was and how well he takes care of his customers.
I ended by saying how we really love having him around and how it wouldn't be the same without him.
I could see him behind her smiling ear-to-ear--this lady really meant something to him.
When I saw him again today, I asked innocently, "so was that your girlfriend?" and like a young teenager in love, he smirked and nodded.
It was obvious how much it meant to him that I spoke well of him to her.
What can I say, I am really happy to make a little contribution to love--and I am really happy for them. ;-)
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They looked really cute together.
And this guy is in his 60's and lost his wife a number of years ago to cancer, so I was really happy to see him happy, and playful in love again.
After a while, I took the opportunity to play cupid best I could.
I told her how nice this guy was and how well he takes care of his customers.
I ended by saying how we really love having him around and how it wouldn't be the same without him.
I could see him behind her smiling ear-to-ear--this lady really meant something to him.
When I saw him again today, I asked innocently, "so was that your girlfriend?" and like a young teenager in love, he smirked and nodded.
It was obvious how much it meant to him that I spoke well of him to her.
What can I say, I am really happy to make a little contribution to love--and I am really happy for them. ;-)
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October 27, 2017
Longevity...85 Is The New 65
So I was speaking to one of our very nice elderly neighbors.
Last week he lost his dear wife of 60 years!
I had visited him during Shiva (the Jewish period of mourning) to wish him our best and let him know we are there if there is anything he needs.
He told me how the night before she passed, they had gone out to eat and to the theatre (she loved the theatre)...and everything was fine!
And then the next day, he went to work--he still teaches medicine at the local hospital 2 days a month.
At midday, he called his wife and asked how she was and if she needed anything from the store (to eat etc.)
She told him she was fine and she didn't need anything.
But by the time he got home just one hour later...she had fallen, hit her head, and died.
He tried to do CPR by it was no use, she was gone.
Both he and his wife were 84-years old.
He mentioned that would tease her that he was 3 months older than her, and so she had to listen to him!
I felt so bad for him...it was obvious how much he loved her and missed her already.
When he told me how old she was, I tried to say reassuringly:
But then he answered:
It's funny how no matter what age you are...there is always a will to live!
He said how she had passed quickly and so maybe he could consider that a blessing.
And we talked about how it truly is especially when some other people really suffer prolonged periods with terrible debilitating and painful illnesses.
It was also strange that around the same time, I ran into yet another elderly neighbor, and he had tears in his eyes...and I asked how he is.
He told me how he just learned 3 weeks ago that his wife has lung cancer.
Seeing his expression how bad things were, I inquired what stage it was at.
He said, "stage 3 cancer," and I told him as well how sorry I was for his pain.
All this made me realize again, how very tenuous life is...and we all hang by a thread that G-d decides at any moment when to shear and when to cut--we need to live every moment to the fullest and as if it's our last. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
Last week he lost his dear wife of 60 years!
I had visited him during Shiva (the Jewish period of mourning) to wish him our best and let him know we are there if there is anything he needs.
He told me how the night before she passed, they had gone out to eat and to the theatre (she loved the theatre)...and everything was fine!
And then the next day, he went to work--he still teaches medicine at the local hospital 2 days a month.
At midday, he called his wife and asked how she was and if she needed anything from the store (to eat etc.)
She told him she was fine and she didn't need anything.
But by the time he got home just one hour later...she had fallen, hit her head, and died.
He tried to do CPR by it was no use, she was gone.
Both he and his wife were 84-years old.
He mentioned that would tease her that he was 3 months older than her, and so she had to listen to him!
I felt so bad for him...it was obvious how much he loved her and missed her already.
When he told me how old she was, I tried to say reassuringly:
"That's a good old age...at least she lived a full life!"
But then he answered:
"84--that's nothing! 85 is the new 65!!!"And went on to tell me how many of their friends are already in the 90's.
It's funny how no matter what age you are...there is always a will to live!
He said how she had passed quickly and so maybe he could consider that a blessing.
And we talked about how it truly is especially when some other people really suffer prolonged periods with terrible debilitating and painful illnesses.
It was also strange that around the same time, I ran into yet another elderly neighbor, and he had tears in his eyes...and I asked how he is.
He told me how he just learned 3 weeks ago that his wife has lung cancer.
Seeing his expression how bad things were, I inquired what stage it was at.
He said, "stage 3 cancer," and I told him as well how sorry I was for his pain.
All this made me realize again, how very tenuous life is...and we all hang by a thread that G-d decides at any moment when to shear and when to cut--we need to live every moment to the fullest and as if it's our last. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
Longevity...85 Is The New 65
October 16, 2017
The Horrible C Word
Cancer is such an awful killer disease.
After heart disease, it is the #2 cause of death in the United States taking almost 592,000 lives a year or 22.5% of all deaths!
Usually, we don't even like to say the word and even tempt fate.
Instead we just refer to it as the horrible "C word."
Today my daughter forwarded to me this poem written by a teenager with terminal cancer, and I thought this was worth sharing with you all...
SLOW DANCE
Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Do you run through each day on the fly?
When you ask, “How are you?”
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done, do you lie in your bed,
with the next hundred chores running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short
The music won't last.
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch, let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,'Hi'
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last..
When you run so fast to get somewhere,
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
After heart disease, it is the #2 cause of death in the United States taking almost 592,000 lives a year or 22.5% of all deaths!
Usually, we don't even like to say the word and even tempt fate.
Instead we just refer to it as the horrible "C word."
Today my daughter forwarded to me this poem written by a teenager with terminal cancer, and I thought this was worth sharing with you all...
SLOW DANCE
Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Do you run through each day on the fly?
When you ask, “How are you?”
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done, do you lie in your bed,
with the next hundred chores running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short
The music won't last.
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch, let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,'Hi'
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last..
When you run so fast to get somewhere,
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
The Horrible C Word
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October 12, 2016
Losing Patience With Tech Progress
We have cloud computing, but still everyone has their own private computing setups everywhere.
We have mobile computing, but still can't get get reliable service in the Metro and all the other "dead zones."
We have social computing, but still people are so cliquey and nasty and troll and bully each other online and off.
We have the Internet of Things, but still things don't really talk to each other regularly (except our smart meters).
We have robots, but still they're relegated to factory assembly lines.
We have natural language processing, but still can't get a meaningful conversation going with Siri.
We have 3-D printing, but still can't get dinner or a pair of Nikes to appear from the Star Trek like "Replicator."
We have augmented and virtual reality headsets, but still can't go anywhere with them without getting motion sickness.
We have biometrics, but still have to sign the check.
We have driverless cars, but still there is a driver inside.
We have networks of information, but still it's subject to hacking, malware, identity and data theft, and even big time EMP knockouts.
We have immunotherapy, but still haven't beaten cancer.
We have nanotechnology, but still we travel through life loaded down with material possessions.
We have food and biotechnology, but still one in eight people are going hungry.
We have space shuttles and stations, but still can't get a colony going on Mars.
We have big data, but still information is corrupted by personal biases and politics.
We have knowledge management, but still more than 780 million adults are illiterate.
We have artificial intelligence, but still it's devoid of emotional intelligence.
We have bigger, deadlier, and more sophisticated weapons systems and smart bombs to "protect us", but still are no closer to living in peace and brotherhood.
All this technology and advancement is great, except that we're left hungrier than ever for the realization of the promised technology land, and are really only halfway there, maybe. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
Losing Patience With Tech Progress
April 13, 2016
2016 Technology Advances - Doing Well Sir
In just the last few days and weeks, I have been astonished at the progress already being made towards the important technology advancements mentioned in Technology Forecast 2016.
On the front for medical technology to fight cancer, just today it was announced that the foundation from Sean Parker (of Napster and Facebook) is providing a $250 million grant for a new cancer institute to advance the field of immunotherapy to boost the body's natural defenses (i.e. immune system) to fight the cancer.
In terms of space technology, famed astrophysicist, Stephen Hawking and venture capitalist, Yuri Milner are teaming up with a $100 million for research to develop "Starchips" (a nanocraft robot on a chip) for a voyage to another solar system 25 trillion miles away.
Finally, there are advances for counter-terrorism technology on display with the U.S. Customs and Border Protection announcing in February a pilot of new biometric technology kiosks to capture and compare facial and iris biometrics for travelers exiting the U.S. to compare with their entry data and ensure an end-to-end visitor entry/exit solution.
I am pleased at the commitment and progress we are making in these critical technology areas, and sincerely hope that these efforts will flourish for us all in the not too distant future. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
2016 Technology Advances - Doing Well Sir
December 25, 2015
Technology Forecast 2016
Andy Blumenthal talks about three technology imperatives for 2016.
1) Medical technology
2) Counter-terrorism technology
3) Space technology
Enjoy and happy New Year!
Technology Forecast 2016
December 22, 2015
Mortality Unlimited
So this week, there seems to be a theme of human frailty and mortality and I wanted to share it.
While it is the holidays and we are celebrating and happy to be with our family and loved ones, it is also a time to miss those that are gone, care and pray for those that are not well, and give thanks for our own blessings.
5 examples in one week (and trust me, I am holding back):
1) Death of family member - One wonderful lady in the office who recently lost her mother (her mom was in her very early 60s and just didn't wake up one morning) came to the holiday party, but looked sad. I asked about her well-being, and she said she is doing well, but is still remembering and dealing with the recent loss of her mom who she was so close with. We talked briefly how it takes time to mourn and heal, and frankly, we never really get over it.
2) Death of friend - A women I know just lost a very good friend (early 40s) to Kidney failure. She is on vacation, but is sad mourning over the loss, and also recognizing her own mortality and that anything can happen at anytime.
3) Very ill teenager - A teenager was at a recent Shabbat event with her peers celebrating G-d and her Jewishness, and at the event revealed that she has a brain disease and the doctors told her she only has a few months to live. She said that unfortunately she will never get to see her wedding day. It was heartbreaking.
4) Sick children - A colleague at work took a few hours off to deliver holiday gifts to the local children's hospital. She helped start an organization to raise money and support children with cancer and other devastating illnesses. It was a very beautiful thing to give back to the innocent kids.
5) Aging gracefully - A friend who recently hit the big 6-0 was a little depressed. When I asked him how he's dealing with it, he acknowledged that it's hard, but that he had all year to prepare (smile). But at the same time, he said that he can't help looking back on his life as well as thinking forward to what comes next. He's had his share of illness, but medical science (with G-d's help) saved his life so far. We talked about not knowing what happens but that he could have another 30 "good years" or that sometimes having a quick, peaceful end can be okay too--since quality of life matters as much or more than quantity.
The point from all this is not to be sad, but to realize we are but "flesh and blood" and we are alive only because G-d sustains us.
What we can do is take care of ourselves and our loved ones and make the most of each and every day. We are not guaranteed any number of years or anything else, so each moment is as precious and needs to be lived as if it could be the last.
Savor your blessings, because that is what they are--as my mother-in-law says, you are entitled to and the world owes you nothing. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
While it is the holidays and we are celebrating and happy to be with our family and loved ones, it is also a time to miss those that are gone, care and pray for those that are not well, and give thanks for our own blessings.
5 examples in one week (and trust me, I am holding back):
1) Death of family member - One wonderful lady in the office who recently lost her mother (her mom was in her very early 60s and just didn't wake up one morning) came to the holiday party, but looked sad. I asked about her well-being, and she said she is doing well, but is still remembering and dealing with the recent loss of her mom who she was so close with. We talked briefly how it takes time to mourn and heal, and frankly, we never really get over it.
2) Death of friend - A women I know just lost a very good friend (early 40s) to Kidney failure. She is on vacation, but is sad mourning over the loss, and also recognizing her own mortality and that anything can happen at anytime.
3) Very ill teenager - A teenager was at a recent Shabbat event with her peers celebrating G-d and her Jewishness, and at the event revealed that she has a brain disease and the doctors told her she only has a few months to live. She said that unfortunately she will never get to see her wedding day. It was heartbreaking.
4) Sick children - A colleague at work took a few hours off to deliver holiday gifts to the local children's hospital. She helped start an organization to raise money and support children with cancer and other devastating illnesses. It was a very beautiful thing to give back to the innocent kids.
5) Aging gracefully - A friend who recently hit the big 6-0 was a little depressed. When I asked him how he's dealing with it, he acknowledged that it's hard, but that he had all year to prepare (smile). But at the same time, he said that he can't help looking back on his life as well as thinking forward to what comes next. He's had his share of illness, but medical science (with G-d's help) saved his life so far. We talked about not knowing what happens but that he could have another 30 "good years" or that sometimes having a quick, peaceful end can be okay too--since quality of life matters as much or more than quantity.
The point from all this is not to be sad, but to realize we are but "flesh and blood" and we are alive only because G-d sustains us.
What we can do is take care of ourselves and our loved ones and make the most of each and every day. We are not guaranteed any number of years or anything else, so each moment is as precious and needs to be lived as if it could be the last.
Savor your blessings, because that is what they are--as my mother-in-law says, you are entitled to and the world owes you nothing. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
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December 12, 2014
Cancer 101
I saw this in a doctor's office and thought it was very educational on Cancer.
The first diagram has a brief definition of cancer and the incidence of cancer type for males and females.
The second explains the stages of cancer, I through IV, and is shown in the small intestine, as an example.
This stuff is so scary and horrible.
The "C" word...we should never hear it, say it, or know from it anymore!
G-d should help us find a cure to rid this world of this disease.
Save us from that which afflicts us, and send us a complete healing of body, mind, and soul, Amen!!!
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November 10, 2014
Cure Cancer B4 It Kills Again
Looking at the 2014 statistics, there were almost 1.7 million new cases and almost 687 thousand deaths in the U.S. alone for cancer including of the brain/nervous system, female breast, colon/rectum, Leukemia, liver, lung/bronchus, non-hodgkin lymphoma, ovary, pancreas, and prostate.
Way too much suffering and death from cancer...we must fight this killer.
Whatever we can do to raise money, caring, and empathy...we should do.
Run, walk, give, support, remember...even just hold someone's hand.
Thank you American Cancer Society and everyone out there helping to find the cure.
"14 million cancer survivors are celebrating birthdays this year."
Won't it be miraculous when everyone is a survivor in a world without cancer anymore. ;-)
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December 19, 2013
Have You Ever Seen A Shark With Cancer?
For a long time people have learned from the animal kingdom.
We learn how to fly from birds, how to swim from fish, how to fight from lions and tigers, and so on.
But an interesting article in the Wall Street Journal gave this new and expanded meaning to me.
Researchers are now looking at animals to learn how to ward off some of the worst diseases known to man.
For example, apparently Sharks do not get cancer, but more than that even when scientists spent 10 years trying to induce cancer in sharks, they couldn't!
Shark have compounds that actually kill tumors--WOW!--If we could learn how to mimic that in humans, imagine the death and suffering that could be prevented, and the extension and perhaps quality of life that could be gained.
Similarly, grizzly bears, which can weigh 1,000 pounds, and can eat 58,000 calories a day, put on 100 pounds or more in the weeks right before they hibernate for the winter, yet bears don't suffer from routine ailments of obesity, such as diabetes, heart attacks, and strokes.
Not that any of us want to be 1,000 pounds, but imagine if heavy people did not get all sorts of diseases from clogged arteries and the like.
While heart disease and cancer each accounts for 1 out of every 4 deaths in the U.S. and are the top two leading causes of death--how amazing would it be if we could not only "talk to the animals, walk with the animals..." but also fight disease like the animals? ;-)
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We learn how to fly from birds, how to swim from fish, how to fight from lions and tigers, and so on.
But an interesting article in the Wall Street Journal gave this new and expanded meaning to me.
Researchers are now looking at animals to learn how to ward off some of the worst diseases known to man.
For example, apparently Sharks do not get cancer, but more than that even when scientists spent 10 years trying to induce cancer in sharks, they couldn't!
Shark have compounds that actually kill tumors--WOW!--If we could learn how to mimic that in humans, imagine the death and suffering that could be prevented, and the extension and perhaps quality of life that could be gained.
Similarly, grizzly bears, which can weigh 1,000 pounds, and can eat 58,000 calories a day, put on 100 pounds or more in the weeks right before they hibernate for the winter, yet bears don't suffer from routine ailments of obesity, such as diabetes, heart attacks, and strokes.
Not that any of us want to be 1,000 pounds, but imagine if heavy people did not get all sorts of diseases from clogged arteries and the like.
While heart disease and cancer each accounts for 1 out of every 4 deaths in the U.S. and are the top two leading causes of death--how amazing would it be if we could not only "talk to the animals, walk with the animals..." but also fight disease like the animals? ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)
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November 9, 2013
Cancer Takes It Away
This is an amazing video.
It is about the life of Angelo and Jennifer Merendino.
Initially, they a lived a fairy tale life, until she was diagnosed with breast cancer.
You can see in the video the brutal transformation Jennifer underwent from the disease.
Yet, the love and togetherness this couple maintained is inspiring.
A link with photos of this couple's battle with cancer is here.
Jennifer died on December 22, 2011 at the young age of 40.
Angelo, a NY photographer compiled their painstaking journey in a book called The Battle We Didn't Choose available at their website My Wife's Fight With Breast Cancer.
It is difficult to look at the pictures of Jennifer's illness and deterioration, especially when marked in contrast to her husband throughout.
The numerous personal pictures makes me feel a little uncomfortable, even as I believe, they are meant to be educational and giving--with 1/2 the proceeds from the book's profits to be going to a non-profit for breast cancer victims.
The story is very tragic, yet too often repeated throughout society...some may be able to find hope in it, and to appreciate what we have, when we have it.
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September 28, 2013
What True Love Means
A Walk To Remember--what an absolutely amazing movie.
This girl with a beautiful soul, Jamie, turns around the life of this lost boy, Landon.
She warns him not to fall in love with her, but he does.
She reveals that she has Leukemia and is no longer responding to medicine.
Landon is head over heels for her and marries her despite the prognosis.
They enjoy one summer of love before she passes.
But she has changed his life forever.
I cried like a baby at this one.
It was a movie of faith, love, and turnaround--it made me believe again. ;-)
"Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude of selfish. It does not offense and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people's sins, but delights in the truth. It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes." - Nicholas Sparks
What True Love Means
July 19, 2013
With Surgical Precision
This is awesome--the iKnife ("Intelligent" knife) for cutting away cancer, can also detect the cancerous cells.
I had previously heard about dogs being able to sniff cancers such as lung, ovarian, and skin--but never a surgical knife doing this.
With the iKnife, a surgeon can use a electrosurgical knife to cut/burn away cancerous tissue, but even better yet, this knife sucks away the smoke containing the vaporized tissue to a mass spectrometer that analyzes the particles and is said to be 100% accurate (so far) in detecting cancerous tissue (from those that are normal).
This is critical because it can be lifesaving in guiding surgeons not to miss any of the cancer (and therefore also helps avoid repeat surgeries) as well as not removing unnecessary tissue that is not cancerous.
Dogs can help alert us to hidden cancers within and the iKnife can help remove them with greater precision and success.
Hopefully, with G-d's help, one day we won't need either anymore. ;-)
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June 17, 2013
Wheelchair Kids
So I was swimming in the pool and noticed a dad playing with his kids in the shallow section.
One kid--the littler and younger one--was swimming this way and that and playing in the water.
The other kid--bigger and older--was in a flotation tube, and she was clearly struggling.
First, I misinterpreted the girl wiggling around in the tube as her just jumping around and having a good time with it.
Then, I saw she was uncomfortable and having some real difficulty, and I noticed the mini-wheelchair for a child parked at the side of the pool.
I saw the dad go over to her in the water tube and help settle her, stabilize her, and he pushed her hair out of her eyes, and poured some cold pool water on her forehead and over her hair.
I held back tears watching the love of this father for his disabled daughter and for the challenges that the disabled regularly have to endure.
The girls little sister started to jump around her sister's tube and wanted to play with her.
The whole scene was sort of surreal.
As it happened, a day later another man in the hotel elevator started talking about how he arrived at the hotel but had so many problems: he lost his wallet, his room had a flood and his family needed to be moved, and he was dealing with a six year old child with cancer.
When I see these children suffering, I really feel emotional--they are too young and innocent to be so sick. They haven't had a chance to fully live and they can't look forward to the same things that other healthy kids can.
That doesn't mean that they can't live purposeful lives, just that they have great challenges for little people.
I think how terrible it is to be confined to a wheelchair or bedridden--instead of being free to run and play.
I hate seeing anyone sick and suffering, but with children it's worse, and I remember my dad telling me as a kid when times were tough: "If you want to see real problems [in life], we should go over to visit the children's hospital!"
He was right--I will never forget those words or the plight of sick and disabled children--may G-d have mercy.
(Source Photo: here with attribution to Joanna C. Dobson)
One kid--the littler and younger one--was swimming this way and that and playing in the water.
The other kid--bigger and older--was in a flotation tube, and she was clearly struggling.
First, I misinterpreted the girl wiggling around in the tube as her just jumping around and having a good time with it.
Then, I saw she was uncomfortable and having some real difficulty, and I noticed the mini-wheelchair for a child parked at the side of the pool.
I saw the dad go over to her in the water tube and help settle her, stabilize her, and he pushed her hair out of her eyes, and poured some cold pool water on her forehead and over her hair.
I held back tears watching the love of this father for his disabled daughter and for the challenges that the disabled regularly have to endure.
The girls little sister started to jump around her sister's tube and wanted to play with her.
The whole scene was sort of surreal.
As it happened, a day later another man in the hotel elevator started talking about how he arrived at the hotel but had so many problems: he lost his wallet, his room had a flood and his family needed to be moved, and he was dealing with a six year old child with cancer.
When I see these children suffering, I really feel emotional--they are too young and innocent to be so sick. They haven't had a chance to fully live and they can't look forward to the same things that other healthy kids can.
That doesn't mean that they can't live purposeful lives, just that they have great challenges for little people.
I think how terrible it is to be confined to a wheelchair or bedridden--instead of being free to run and play.
I hate seeing anyone sick and suffering, but with children it's worse, and I remember my dad telling me as a kid when times were tough: "If you want to see real problems [in life], we should go over to visit the children's hospital!"
He was right--I will never forget those words or the plight of sick and disabled children--may G-d have mercy.
(Source Photo: here with attribution to Joanna C. Dobson)
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May 27, 2013
Going Up To The Clouds
Zach was diagnosed at just the tender age of 14 and by 17 he was given less than a year to live.
During his last year on Earth, he wrote this beautiful song, Clouds.
The lyrics are amazing:
"And we'll go up, up, up
But I'll fly a little higher
We'll go up in the clouds because the view is a little nicer
Up here my dear
It won't be long now, it won't be long now
If only I had a little bit more time
It only I had a little bit more time with you."
Anticipating his death, Zach imagines, as a soul, flying up in the clouds--where the "view is a little nicer."
And he knows, time is short--and "it won't be long now"--and although he'll be able to see his family, friends, and loved ones from the clouds, he wishes he "had a little bit more time" with them on Earth.
Death is hard at any age, but it is especially tragic when it is a child or someone who hasn't been able to fully live--and experience so many things or make all their contributions.
But at any age, the loss of a good person, a kind person, a loving person--is a loss for all of us, left behind.
Zach, some day we'll see you in the clouds with the other good people--it should be at the right time, merciful, and when our job here is done.
It is okay to love life and the special people around us and to miss them terribly when we go, but we all go to the same place...to be with G-d, and each other, in Heaven.
In the after life, we can fly higher, with a nicer view, and reflect on how we did with the precious gifts and time given to us--whether long or short--before being called spiritually home again to our perfect maker. ;-)
Going Up To The Clouds
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