When people do cr*p to you and they do it maliciously and with intent, and as repeat offenders enjoying their evil ways hurting others.
Invariably, they can end up on the sh*t list.
However, I've never actually seen such a list until this.
You have your:
- Was it a friend, stranger, lover, family, other?
- When did it occur?
- Severity level
It even has a line for your "plan of attack"--whether you confront, ignore, stew, avenge, talk sh*t, or other.
And finally whether the terrible offender is still on or off the list.
While not every offense is a mortal blow and we need to have compassion for people and try to love everyone...sometimes, people can behave so badly and don't stop no matter how much you try and beg and offer to help them that they just force themselves onto the bad boys/girls list.
We don't want to have ill feelings to anyone--we are all G-d's creatures--but what do you do when people go so far astray or have problems so big that they hurt others so bad and so often.
Surely, we need to have understanding and compassion first for people and try to do everything to help them and bring peace to the world, but when your dealing with the true worst of what people have to offer and they lack basic human self-control and decency, perhaps that's why victims revert as a last resort to their sh*t list. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)