So my daughter took a training class in critical thinking at work.
And she brought home an excellent handout from the instructor, Haywood Spangler, about how people try to get you to their point of view, but without any real solid reasoning behind it.
My mother-in-law calls this concept in blunt terms, mind-f*cking!
Here are some examples:
1) Genetic Fallacy - Rejecting an idea based on where or who it comes from, rather than the merits of the idea itself. I call this one, you're an idiot, so your ideas are idiotic.
2) Circular Reasoning - Restating the conclusion, rather than proving it. I call this hammering or going no where fast.
3) Red Herring - Diverting from the real issue as a distraction. I call this the shell game.
4) Ad Hoc Reasoning - Coming up with a reason to simply reject your every objection. I call this just say it isn't so.
5) False Dichotomy - Oversimplifying a complex situation and making it into only black and white. I call this my way or the highway.
6) Slippery Slope - Supposing that if one thing happens then something else terrible must necessarily follow. I call this following the false causality.
7) Band Wagon - Everyone is doing it, so you need to also. I call this classic groupthink or be careful not to stand in front of a moving train.
Basically, when someone is not taking with you, but at you and trying to make you just do what they want, period, then watch out, you are probably being gloriously mind-f*cked.
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)